tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27860825348439951972024-03-04T23:48:38.710-05:00OSH Community NotesNotes, updates, writings, sermons, poetry, stories from the sisters of the Order of Saint Helena.Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2786082534843995197.post-59458919567816633572012-12-14T15:20:00.000-05:002012-12-14T15:20:49.840-05:00Memories of Sr. Cornelia, OSH<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";">From ES: <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";">I've
known Cornelia from the early 1970's. She and I waited together to process into
chapel for my Life Profession at Vails Gate. The thing I most admired or appreciated
about her was her sense – and practice – of fairness and justice.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="background: white; font-family: "Times New Roman";">From Benedicta:<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></b><span style="background: white; font-family: "Times New Roman";">I've known Cornelia since 1973. I enjoyed her sense of humor.<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><o:p></o:p></b></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="background: white; font-family: "Times New Roman";">From Ellen Francis:<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></b><span style="background: white; font-family: "Times New Roman";">I've known Cornelia since I was a first-year seminarian at General
Seminary in New York City in the fall of 1997. I most appreciated her
forthrightness; there was never anything wishy-washy about her. When I was
doing supply work at Church of Our Savior in Chinatown NYC, we used to have
long talks on the bus going and coming from the church on Sunday mornings. I
will also treasure the memories of taking her to the Parkinson's Support Group
over the past several years.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="background: white; font-family: "Times New Roman";">From Carol Andrew: <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></b><span style="background: white; font-family: "Times New Roman";">I have known Cornelia for 42 years. The thing I most
appreciated about her was her fairness. Also, in spite of disliking change, she
presided over the biggest change we have ever had: from a single Superior to a
Leadership Council.<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><o:p></o:p></b></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";">From Rosina:<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I met Cornelia when I came to the community
in December 1978. I appreciate her love for working with the downtrodden and
those who have not. I enjoyed my time living with her in our house in Manhattan
where we ministered to the Cambodian women in Brooklyn, people from China in
Chinatown, and many others she taught English to. When we went to Kumasi every
times she visited Ghana, we had a swell time participating in the churches –
she felt no reservation. She also shared her love with me about her work in
Nassau.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I found Cornelia a teacher through and
through with a passion to teach no matter how inadequate or unskilled the
student might have been. She would find a way to reach the student. Her last
words to me when I returned to Augusta as a CPE Supervisor, as she read the handbook
that I had put together, were "Think how your father would be very proud
of what you have done with yourself.” That touched me so much because my father
was a school teacher/master for 61 years and appreciated great achievements of
his students and especially his children. Cornelia and I bonded because of her
love for Africa and "third world countries."<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";">From Barbara Lee:<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";">I’ve
known Sr Cornelia since 1972 at Vails Gate. What I most appreciated about her was
her peaceful, prayerful, and wise presence and knowing that I could trust her.<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><o:p></o:p></b></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";">From Grace:<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I have lived in the Order for 3 years with
Cornelia, and she was the sister who did my behavioral assessment before
entering as a postulant. She was surprised with one of my answers to her
questionnaire which asked: what is one of your strengths? I said listening. She
said "no one had answered like that before." In her last weeks and
whenever I would visit her at The Place at Martinez, she would always ask when
I was starting CPE school. She was very supportive of my ministry and education
process. I can still hear her asking, “When does your school start again?” I
have such wonderful memories of the two of us buying cokes from the vending
machine and sitting on the front porch of The Place watching the clouds and
rainstorms blow in.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We would take walks, and she would tell me
what it was like to be the Superior of OSH. It was unfortunate that she could
not take the trip to the Bahamas with me last January 2012 due to her
hospitalization in November 2011. She is greatly missed by me and by the Bahamian
Associates, who send their condolences as well.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";">From Mary Lois:<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";">I’ve
known Cornelia for 20 years. She was a role model for me and always available
with help and advice.<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><o:p></o:p></b></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";">From Linda Elston:<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I made my first visit to OSH in Vails Gate
in 2001. Cornelia was out of town so I did not meet her until my aspirant visit
in early 2002. Her first words to me were, “Oh, you’re back,” in a rather harsh
voice. I wasn’t sure about this lady until she conducted an interview with me
during that visit. There I experienced a compassionate Cornelia. The first
words out of her mouth were a recognizing that my parents had died two days
apart from one another. I felt her empathy. Five months later I entered the
Order, and once Cornelia learned I was a hard worker, it was evident she liked
me.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>My memories of Cornelia, until recently, are
mostly funny. One winter morning maybe in 2003, I was sacristan and setting up
the chapel in the dark. The snow had frozen our two big bells, so I brought my
big bowl bell into the chapel to try it out. Bong, bong, bong! The next thing I
heard was a very loud “Who is that?!” I couldn’t see her, but Cornelia was
sitting in back of the chapel, and I had unknowingly interrupted her prayer
time.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Fast-forwarding to the last six weeks of
Cornelia’s life, I had the scary (to me) task of being Cornelia’s primary
medical proxy. I didn’t know what treasured opportunities that would give me –
three of them, in particular.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>About six weeks before her death, Cornelia
and I went to Yo Pizza, our favorite Monday lunch hang-out. She got such a kick
out of getting out and about and was very much her Cornelia self in spite of
the effects that Parkinson’s had on her mind. One week before she died, I
visited Cornelia at the nursing home, and she was busily packing, thinking that
the sisters were moving back to Vails Gate, so of course she was getting ready,
too. She was SO happy at her work. Then, she stopped and looked me straight in
the eye and said, “I’m going home.” My heart almost stopped, and I responded,
“Cornelia, sometimes that sounds really good to me too.” I believe something in
her knew that she was about to truly “go home.”<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Cornelia got ambulanced to the hospital ER four
days before she died. I met her there. The next three hours I will never
forget. Cornelia let me massage her feet and give her a little healing touch
like I used to, and we talked in our straight-forward way just like Cornelia
and I always talked. And of course, she joked with the nurse and doctor. Her
humor was a real part of her.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>One of the most unexpected encounters I had
with Cornelia was about a year before I made my Life Vow in the Order. I was
struggling with the decision and talking with Cornelia about it. Cornelia
suggested I just try it for a couple of years. I nearly fell out of my chair
that someone would offer a freedom like that.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 11.0pt;">From Ann Prentice:<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 11.0pt;">I met Cornelia during my aspirant visit in
February 1990, just after my 50<sup>th</sup> birthday. She said OSH had been
hoping not to accept anyone over 40! After that she was unfailingly ENCOURAGING
about my vocation "through all the changes and chances of this life."<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";">From Ruth:<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman";">I
have many memories about Cornelia, but what I remember most clearly and as I
told her – When she was Superior, besides doing a very fine job with its
inherent responsibilities, she took very good care of her own spiritual needs.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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“Love one another as I have loved
you. Start with the people in this room.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>We heard those words from our Presiding Bishop, Katharine Jefferts
Schori, at General Convention several days ago.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>I heard her words and thought, “I think I need to start smaller.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Maybe with the people in my family or the
people I live with.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Then I thought, “I
think I need to start smaller than that.”<o:p></o:p></div>
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So I began to wonder what might
happen if we started with ourselves – loving ourselves – loving parts or wholes
of our own selves that are difficult or different; parts that we think are disappointing
or ugly or even contemptible?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>What might
happen if we start with the parts that we’ve circumcised from ourselves?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You know, the bits we’ve left behind because
claiming them and carrying them around is too much trouble, too much work, too
dirty or just too much.<o:p></o:p></div>
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What if we gathered up those bits of
ourselves, those bits we’ve declared alien and unwelcome– the prejudice we left
in the grocery line, the anger we dropped in the laundry room, the grief from
the house meeting, the fear from the dark night – what if we gathered them up in
a crowd and had compassion on them?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>What
might happen if we loved those parts of ourselves?<o:p></o:p></div>
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And what if we gathered those bits
along with the other bits? You know, gathered the bits that are easier to name
and claim – the compassion we left sitting in the refectory, the song we
dropped in the cloister, the joy in the dance, the authenticity of heart laying
on a prayer desk?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If we gathered up all the
pieces we hold dear, and the pieces we hold with disdain or contempt, and even
those we’ve intentionally cut off and left buried someplace; I wonder could we
love them all together?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And what might
happen if we do?<o:p></o:p></div>
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What if we trusted Jesus to join
all the bits together into a holy temple, a dwelling place for God?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>That IS the promise, but our trust is the
question.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Can we love ourselves and by
doing so love God? <o:p></o:p></div>
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I believe we can.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And when I forget that; when I lose track of
the depth of the mystery that makes that possible, I reach for the stories and
I remember.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I remember a young girl
whose “yes” changed the world. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I
remember one who knew the heat and loneliness of the desert and the cool waters
of baptism. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I remember one who had
compassion on the crowd.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I remember one
who proclaimed peace to those far off and those near.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I remember the One who revives my soul.<o:p></o:p></div>
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And in that remembering, I also
begin to be re-membered of my own self, and the bits I’ve left along the way
become part of me again and hope rises in my heart; hope that in loving
ourselves we might better love one another and live into the fullness of the
reconciled life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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So, love yourself – all of
yourself; for when we do, we will love God, in whose image we are made; and
when we love God, we cannot help but treat our neighbor differently.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And that is Good News.<o:p></o:p></div>
<!--EndFragment-->Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2786082534843995197.post-77581565312464336762011-12-14T16:02:00.000-05:002011-12-14T16:02:52.806-05:00Notes from Sisters, December 2011<b>Sr Ellen Francis</b>: Since February of 2011, I have been serving as Priest in Charge of All Saints Episcopal Church in Beech Island SC. It is a great joy and privilege to be a member of their small, friendly, and spirit-filled community. My work at the convent includes serving as Sister for Vocations and Formation, Treasurer, website manager and librarian. I’m currently filling commissions for icons of Saint Hilda of Whitby and of Deaconess Ruth Byllesby, who served as a deaconess at Christ Church in Augusta from 1928 until 1943.<br />
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<b>Sr Faith Anthony</b>: I tend to go for a hermit-type job. To me, my main ministry is still art (drawing, calligraphy and photography)/ Ministry of Silly Cards, since this is my way of expressing spirituality. It is such a joy if my cards cheer somebody’s heart. <br />
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I started preaching, and I found sermons another way of sharing my heart with others, as well as tackling the Scripture in depth and asking God what God wants me to say. Currently I am trying a position as a Missioner of Metropolitan Japanese Ministry in New York. To my surprise, I enjoy meeting people, guiding Bible gatherings. <br />
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I am a board member of St. Stephen’s Ministry, an organization that provides housing, treatment, therapy, education to HIV-infected, low income or homeless individuals so they can go back to the society and resume their lives with dignity. We organize fund raising events (such as dinner/ball, concerts).<br />
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<b>Sr Ruth</b>: Following my wonderful September visit with my spiritual director in Mirfield, England, I have been busily keeping up with considerable correspondence. I have concluded that, while NOT an autobiographer, I AM a writer of documents. My latest is one on my experiences as a prisoner pen pal and some-time prison visitor.<br />
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That probably covers it for me. I could say a lot more about this “considerable correspondence,” but then I’d be off creating yet another document!!...and I’m not ready for that at the moment.<br />
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<b>Sr Cintra Pemberton</b>: I am gradually relinquishing my responsibilities as Sister for Associates. I have enjoyed very much being in that position for a little over two years, but I find now that my illness (cancer) prevents me from doing many of the things I have done in the past. Sister Linda Julian will be taking my position with Associates.<br />
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However, I continue active in many ways as my energy and stamina allow. I still try to offer my much-appreciated cooking skills to the community. I regularly attend a knitting group and continue to learn to knit. I’m an active participant in the Magnolia Garden Club and assist in several different service projects. Last year I became a Licensed Lay Minister for the Diocese of Georgia and serve at the altar of the Church of the Good Shepherd in Augusta on a regular basis. I am deeply involved in the Louisiana Wetlands Foundation and will be presenting a major paper on it next spring.<br />
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Just before Thanksgiving I made a quick trip to New Orleans to visit a dear long-time friend and also spent time with my daughter Pemmie. I especially enjoyed playing dominoes with my two great-grandsons. I expect to return to New Orleans in mid December to spend the holidays with my whole family.<br />
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<b>Sr Linda Julian</b>: I have recently become a Hospice Volunteer, providing respite care and companionship for patients and caregivers. I am grateful to be involved in this important ministry.<br />
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I went to Manhattan in September, partly on business necessary for the renewal of my “green card”, but also spent time with good friends in the city and beyond. It is always wonderful to return to Manhattan!<br />
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In October I traveled west, to be present in Seattle for the Ordination to the priesthood of the Rev. Catharine Reid, a one-time OSH sister, and a close friend. I was privileged to be an oblation bearer for the ceremony, which was a truly joyous occasion. Sr. Elsie, Catharine’s mother, was also present to see her daughter ordained.<br />
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My other “away” event was to spend five days in retreat at our property in North Augusta with my dog Goldie. Needless to say, both of us had a glorious time!<br />
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<b>Sr ES</b>: I have continued to do missions in churches: most recently a talk on the Spirituality of Hospitality for the Fall Gathering of the Daughters of the King in Columbia, S.C. in September, and one at St. Mary and St. Martha of Bethany in October. I am scheduled for an Advent Evening Program at All Saint’s, Beach Island in December. I take pleasure in talking with the people who come to see me for spiritual direction, and even a couple with whom I speak on the phone, and look forward to helping on the formation team by talking to sisters in process. My share of household responsibilities includes cooking, sacristy and preaching, all of which I see as ministries and which I enjoy. I am working with a publisher on a project to put out my collected poems and one of my poetic dramas, and I have three other writing projects under way.<br />
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<b>Sr Linda</b>: In October, I attended a 10-day program in southeast Arizona put on by the Star Foundation (www.starfound.org). The program’s intent is therapeutic and offers participants opportunities for personal growth and accelerated healing from many conditions. I attended hoping to learn more about the relationship between physical pain and emotions. While I did not intellectually learn these connections, my psyche and spirit learned what really matters, because day after day during the program and since, I find myself in a continual state of transformation. I’ve never known anything like the Star programs, and I commend them to anyone who feels great emotional suffering.<br />
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<b>Sr. Elsie</b>: Sr. Elsie continues to reside at Allisonville Meadows in Fishers, IN near her son, Eric, where she enjoys walks in a nearby park and attending Holy Family Church. In October, Sr. Elsie traveled with Eric and his partner, Gail, to Seattle WA where she was a presenter at her daughter Catharine's ordination to the priesthood at St. Mark's Cathedral. Sr. Elsie had been looking forward to this event for years and was overjoyed to be able to participate fully. In true motherly fashion she even went forward to assist with Catharine’s ritual vesting in chasuble and stole.<br />
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<b>Sr Grace</b>: This month (Nov. 2011) is the anniversary of my second year in community at OSH. From inquirer, aspirant, postulant, to novice it has been quite a growth journey. God has opened wonderful ministry opportunities in Augusta, GA, for me as a volunteer chaplain at a local hospital--Georgia Health Sciences (formerly MCG). For further skill development, I have applied to enter their 4-unit CPE program; hopefully, to start Sept. 2012. Travel as a Sister has taken me to England, California, and then to Nassau, on an Associates mission gathering in January 2012.<br />
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Some new training at the convent has included choir- and side-leading in the chapel, preaching, and precenting – all equally stimulating challenges to our prayer life together. Believing all things are possible with God, I will request to enter junior profession / first vows (God and community willing) around May 2012. By faith, hope, love and grace, community life at OSH will be an instrument of God to continue to stretch and grow this Sister-in-process.<br />
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<b>Sr Benedicta</b>: I have had the great pleasure of a visit from my sister-in-law, Irene Sender, and my neice and nephew, Isabelle and Theiry. We had a splendid short time together and they were a great help to me. I have also been preaching a good bit of late, and enjoyed being able to point out that in spite of the Gospel parable about the “wise and foolish virgins,” the Gospels also say “to them that knock, it shall be opened.”<br />
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<b>Sr Ann</b>: This past fall I have been away more than usual and was relieved to realize that I finally felt, at the end of one journey, that I was “coming home”—not just returning to Augusta once again. Several sisters have acknowledged the same sentiment, and it is evident in our chanting of the Offices—we have “come into community” in a deeper sense. I am choir leader and feel much more relaxed in that role. I love returning to our particular words and music in chapel services! When Sr Faith Anthony is in NYC part of each month, I am very active in sacristy work. Mending sacristy linens is one of my delights, as is arranging altar flowers or greens, depending on the season. I’m on the Liturgy Committee, which is a joy.<br />
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In our Guest Ministry, I’m the “meeter and greeter” when home. I orient new guests and usually provide suppers. I’m often involved in spiritual conversation with guests, as well as offering “spiritual direction” as a ministry (my model is more like “spiritual companioning”).<br />
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Associates Ministry is a continuing passion in my life. I so enjoyed being able to go to St Louis in May, and to Houston and Poughkeepsie (NY) in October to lead Associates Gatherings, including receiving new Associates, meeting some Associates who have known OSH far longer than I, and seeing dear Associates whom I have missed since moving from New York. I keep in touch with some by email or phone calls. The sisters were thrilled early in December to have Meri Maisonet and granddaughter Emily visit us in Augusta! Meri has been an Associate for about 55 years. She lived around the corner from the Vails Gate convent and was a regular at our Sunday dinners. She and her growing children, and then their children, came every Christmas Eve to help decorate our Tree, with Meri’s yearly special blown-egg ornaments. We are glad Meri can now visualize us in our Augusta location, as well as tell others in the mid-Hudson Valley what she was able to see and hear in person.<br />
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Quiet Days and preaching are other important parts of my ministry—I enjoy the preparation as much as the delivery. I continue to offer my editing and proof-reading skills on various projects. I usually cook dinner for the community twice a month and am becoming less terrified of ruining food-for-20! I have been very glad to be a member again of the Margaret Hall Foundation Board of Directors, and to be engaged in the work of selecting recipients of our grants to secondary schools which offer innovative programs involving young women.<br />
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In October I was able to return to my home state of Nebraska to be present for my dear friend Scott Barker’s consecration as the new Episcopal Bishop of the Diocese of Nebraska. I was able to share that glorious occasion with a dear childhood friend, and I was also able to spend a whole day catching up with another dear childhood friend. While in Texas, I spent a few precious days in a mini-family reunion, and then while in New York, several memorable days with my son, daughter-in-law, and granddaughter, as well as another dear friend who lives in the same apartment building! All of these were balm for my spirit and much-needed vacation days.<br />
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This fall I was saddened to learn of the deaths of a friend I had known since birth, and three weeks later of his mother, for whom I was named. Then one of my closest woman friends died and I was able to travel to Louisville, KY to participate in her memorial service. It was a blessing to see so many dear friends from my years of living there prior to coming into the convent. The cycle of Life is connecting more deeply for me with the cycle of the Church Seasons with every passing year. I am grateful for my own good health and energy these days, and I wish all of you healthy and cheering holidays!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2786082534843995197.post-38449645410256693882011-05-11T15:58:00.000-04:002011-11-13T16:41:57.907-05:00The Servant-Girl at Emmaus (A Painting by Velazquez)<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjncItNkNqy_TOQPmMmUyOvrincXZ5WRX6aYUWYNKuQ03lNYdW4e_BrNEdKeRv8bxbmiq46x5SYuxTtU5sqI8KxHbaflGQHLnfAn8R3RugaJNDVHIU_Y58N9tgu4uRtUF3OUYp8XHe80Uo/s1600/LJ_KitchenMaidEmmaus_20110508.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear:right; float:right; margin-left:1em; margin-bottom:1em"><img border="0" height="158" width="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjncItNkNqy_TOQPmMmUyOvrincXZ5WRX6aYUWYNKuQ03lNYdW4e_BrNEdKeRv8bxbmiq46x5SYuxTtU5sqI8KxHbaflGQHLnfAn8R3RugaJNDVHIU_Y58N9tgu4uRtUF3OUYp8XHe80Uo/s320/LJ_KitchenMaidEmmaus_20110508.jpg" /></a></div><br />
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<br />
She listens, listens, holding<br />
her breath. Surely that voice <br />
is his - the one<br />
who had looked at her, once, across the crowd,<br />
as no one ever had looked?<br />
Had seen her? Had spoken, as if to her?<br />
<br />
Surely those hands were his,<br />
taking the platter of bread from hers just now?<br />
Hands he'd laid on the dying and made them well?<br />
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Surely that face - ?<br />
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The man they'd crucified for sedition and blasphemy.<br />
The man whose body disappeared from its tomb.<br />
The man it was rumored now some women had seen this morning,<br />
alive?<br />
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Those who had brought this stranger home to their table<br />
don't recognize yet with whom they sit.<br />
But she in the kitchen, absently touching<br />
the winejug she's to take in,<br />
a young Black servant intently listening,<br />
<br />
swings round and sees<br />
the light around him<br />
and is sure.<br />
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FROM A HOMILY given by Sr. Linda Julian, May 8, 2011<br />
Poem: Denise Levertov, Breathing the Water, New Directions Publishing, 1987<br />
Painting: Diego Velazquez, Kitchen Maid with the Supper at Emmaus, c. 1618Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2786082534843995197.post-64920991145728653032011-03-20T16:42:00.003-04:002011-11-13T16:44:39.530-05:00Ruth - Who am I?This post is long, but well worth the read. Sister Ruth is a model of faithfulness for the rest of the sisters (a fact which would embarrass her, but is the absolute truth). As her Lenten discipline, she is reading through the books of the prophets Isaiah, Jeremiah, Lamentations, Baruch, and Ezekiel together with a prison-bound penpal.<br />
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Ruth submitted the following in response to a request for autobiographies from sisters.<br />
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I am an 85-year-old woman, a long-time life-professed member of the Order of St. Helena. As such, my daily routine is: Rise 5:00. To chapel at 6:30 for silent prayer. Matins 7:30. Eucharist 8:00. Breakfast ca. 8:45. I usually spend a goodly part of the morning writing one or more letters and, when my energy runs out, I return to my bed/sitting room to read or work a Fill-It-In puzzle (to which I am addicted).<br />
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Noonday office in chapel. 12:30 dinner. Following dinner, I normally return to my bed/sitting room and spend the time reading (see below re: my reading). 4:30 to the chapel for intercessions and silent prayer. 5:30 Vespers. Following Vespers, I return to my bed/sitting room where I ready myself for my supper which consists of an apple, a granola bar, and an Activia yogurt - that last is like a dessert. I then ready myself for bed and, depending on how I am feeling, I go to bed earlier or somewhat later and read for a time. And so to sleep.<br />
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That expresses the exterior aspects of my daily life. How do I feel about all of this? The times of silent prayer in the chapel are very meaningful and important to me and I only miss them if perchance I have a doctor's appointment or am ill.<br />
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The time spent reading is also very important, having been an inveterate reader all my life. During the day, I rarely read anything recreational - that comes at bedtime. On the stool next to my desk, I have a CD player and occasionally listen to my not inconsiderable collection of CDS (90% classical - I have, for instance, all nine symphonies of Gustav Mahler, one of my favorite composers). On the front end of that stool is a stack of books - usually nothing but spiritual reading (which may include "study-type" reading of a spiritual or religious nature), arranged so that as I sit in my comfortable chair, I can see all their titles. I am usually engaged in two or more books at the same time.<br />
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I have a considerable hearing loss. I wish for more social contact with my sisters than I am able to get. I do fairly well in one-on-one conversations, but in groups I find it frustrating. I do from time to time initiate a lunch out with one or another of my sisters.<br />
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In general, as a relatively introverted woman, I find my current lifestyle viable, pleasant, and peaceful.<br />
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My spiritual life. I have described the outward aspects of that above. But what is my relationship with God and God's relationship with me? As I think the Community is aware, The Cloud of Unknowing and its "sequel," the Book of Privy Counseling (for spiritual sustenance I use William Johnston's translation) are of ongoing importance to me. I am almost always in process of rereading one, the other, or both. That does not mean that I am a contemplative in the anonymous author's understanding. In fact, quite recently, I have come to realize that I am probably not a contemplative, certainly not in his terms. I wish I were, but that is a grace I believe God has not given me. So be it. Nonetheless, those two writings are important to me. I am uncertain that I can explain their "hold" on me.<br />
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What I do know is that my faith in God remains steadfast, may He be praised. Just what the nature of that faith is, is something else I am unable to explain. I am repeatedly amazed at the ineffability of God. The gift of "Jottings" [NOTE: "Jottings" is a series of messages that Ruth received as a "download" from above some years ago] has been a tremendous one. It gives me daily nourishment of my spirit, even after these more than thirty years since the Holy Spirit gave it to me. And having in the course of 2010 been given its memorization has meant that it or portions of it are always available to me at all odd moments and in all kinds of situations. I rarely revert now to the printed copy. While I have several favorite parts of it (which parts are not favorites?), my probably most favorite bit is "Ineffable God, Lover of my soul." Non-favorite parts: the first two lines, which constitute a definition of apophatic prayer, a word with which I do not think I was acquainted at the time the Holy Spirit dictated "Jottings" to me.<br />
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I still have not responded to the question I posed two paragraphs ago: what is my relationship with God, and God's with me? It is possible that I must leave that up to God to answer. From my vantage point, I think it is a good relationship, but who knows what He/She thinks? And that is far more important than what I think.<br />
Another aspect of all that I have said. <br />
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At the age of 85, I am well aware that I am coming down the home stretch of my life on this earth. How much longer I shall continue here only God knows. I have no known serious illnesses nor other known mortal problems. While my choice would be to wake up one morning to discover that I am no longer here, that again is God's choice. I do not fear death, and am hopefully ready and shall be ready for it when it comes.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2786082534843995197.post-62256639702142625312010-12-25T16:44:00.001-05:002011-11-13T16:47:01.045-05:00I Will Consider My Dog Goldie - poem by Sr. Linda Julian, OSHSo much life is behind her already,<br />
so many relationships:-<br />
breeders, vets, puppies; even, for a while, a cat!<br />
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Such a great fund of doggie wisdom flows from her:<br />
knowing when I should get up, how manage my day,<br />
to do, in order, all the things<br />
on which her life and comfort depend.<br />
<br />
Does she know she is a dog of surpassing beauty,<br />
a paragon among poodles?<br />
Or is her flouncing and flirting aimed just at keeping<br />
her place secure in my eyes?<br />
<br />
Do not fear, little monarch. You are my daily joy,<br />
and my clear assurance of the abundance of grace.<br />
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Pat Knox-Hudson: <br />
Thank you all for the meaningful and happy 65th birthday celebration at St Helena’s Your beautiful place at the top of Eagle Drive’s hill has been a place of solice and inspiration for me since about 1966, and I’m so grateful. Thank you for your lovely music. Thank you for your open, welcoming doors and arms. Thank you for your leadership during difficult national times, particularly the civil rights struggle and the Vietnam War. Thank you for your sense of fun and celebration. Thank you for leading ever deeper into spiritual truth. Thank you for following Jesus’ teaching so faithfully….”Love your neighbor as yourself.” Thank you for blessing us in Augusta with your presence, your hospitality, your guidance, your love.<br />
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Tom and Martha Portney: <br />
Attending the OSH 65th Anniversary service and celebration reminded us of how much the Order is a second church family for us. In their teaching, worship, and laughter we have grown with them. The Sisters of St. Helena provide a window into practices and learnings you can find nowhere else in this area.<br />
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Mary Lou Harrold and Stephen Henderson: <br />
Thank you for the glorious camaraderie and hospitality toward visitors that exists in your glorious community. We consider ourselves very blessed to have found St Helena and the beautiful souls that dwell there.<br />
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<b>From Sisters</b><br />
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Sister Ellen Francis: <br />
I am doing regular Sunday supply at All Saints Church, Beech Island SC, and a number of parishioners came to our 65th event. For many of them it was their first time to visit the convent! It seemed to me that we were celebrating our past history and also very much celebrating future friends and ministries.<br />
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Sister Grace, Novice: <br />
What I remember most was joyfully being initiated with red wine on the back of my habit, quite by accident, while assisting Sister Mary Michael through the visiting crowd. It was wonderful to have my friends from EFM and the Church of the Holy Comforter come. They had never been to the convent and had a splendid time.<br />
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Sister Ann Prentice: <br />
As we were preparing for the 65th anniversary of the Founding of OSH, I was startled to realize that I have been part of the Order for almost 1/3rd of its existence and am older than "Saint Helena!" In a strange way that realization freed me up to participate with an outpouring of joyful celebratory spirit embracing everyone who has been connected with the Order and every work and witness of our community life. I believe the Holy Spirit was present, spreading a joyful embrace among those who gathered in our chapel for Festal Vespers and afterwards during the reception. The founding sisters were mystically present and joining in the alleluias. We have come into our "wisdom years" accompanied by so many wise and wonderful Associates and friends of the Order – women and men – who have contributed their prayers and presence, time, talent and financial help to bring us through many tribulations. May we continue to trust God, to be good stewards of our heritage and keepers of the vision of our founders. May we allow ourselves to be filled by the "new wine" of the Holy Spirit and renewed for joyful service in this life to which we have been called.<br />
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Sister Ellen Stephen: <br />
There was a feeling of great energy within the OSH community that night – sisters sat together even after the party and reminisced and talked. I so appreciated the warmth and support from our friends and Associates in the larger community. I was especially glad to see Mary Lou Harrold and Stephen again.<br />
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Sister Blaise, Novice: <br />
As a relative newcomer to OSH, I am especially struck by two things. One, I am honored to now be a part of the great lineage of this Order, and grateful for the founding Sisters who started it all. And two, I am touched by the many friends and Associates of the Order who pray for us and care so much about us – and for whom we pray and care for in return.<br />
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Sister Mary Michael: <br />
It seems to me that on our 65th anniversary, God is blessing us by sending new inquirers and aspirants, a vibrant new guest ministry, new energy and ideas for a future, that I think, while growing out of our past, will be different from what we’ve had before.<br />
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Sister Linda Elston: <br />
The evening was so gentle and easy and happy feeling. Great to have a chapel FULL of guests.<br />
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Sister Grace - Sermon #3<br />
Passages: Deut. 6:1-9, Col. 3:12-17, Mt. 13:44-46, Ps. 46:5-11<br />
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<i>My thoughts are not your thoughts, and My ways are not your ways, says the Lord</i> (Isaiah 55:8).<br />
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<b>Story</b><br />
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“The Way,” by Philip <b>Harnden</b> (Source: Journeys of Simplicity)<br />
<i>Late one night in the 1980's, two British climbers, bivouacked in the subzero cold atop Africa's second-highest peak, were startled by the sudden appearance of a lone, barefoot African man. He told them he had come to pray.<br />
"At first it scared the hell out of us," the climbers later told rangers. "Nobody climbs the mountain at night. We had just spent a full day coming up the normal route using ropes, ice axes and pitons. Then this nice old man arrives without even a pair of shoes."<br />
Ephraim M'Ikiara stayed on Mount Kenya's 17,0222-foot Nelion summit for four days--praying, as he later explained, for "the unification of all the religions of the world."<br />
Meanwhile a rescue team was mobilized, convinced that no one could solo down the ice-covered pitches and vertical overhangs. "Brother, can we show you the way?" the rangers called out when they saw Ephraim M'Ikiara descending.<br />
"Was it you who showed me the way here [in the first place]?" he replied, before disappearing in the mist and scrambling down the mountain…. </i><br />
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OSH has had Sisters on a monastic journey for 65 years. Nine were first in line. Now, over 171 Sisters are recorded as having entered the order. Sister Blaise is the newest, at #172. A quick trivia question: Can you name where the 8 or 9 OSH houses have been located over the years? <br />
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For 65 years, various OSH Sisters have ventured to follow the Christian monastic Way…not always a mountaintop experience…. Some have pioneered through the <i>Dark Night of the Soul</i>. with John of the Cross. Some pray regularly through the <i>Cloud of Unknowing</i>. Some traveled via circuitous routes, unknown to secular convention or human reason. Some have been priests, deacons, chaplains, missionaries, teachers, nurses, cooks, psychotherapists—just to name a few. On their journey, some have used all manner of tools and gadgets (ice scrapers, chisels, hammers, food processors, double boilers, etc.). Some have come simply with a suitcase in hand; others, with a U-haul truck. But each comes with a uniquely natural desire to follow God, to be taught and try the monastic life.<br />
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In the early days, primitive tools (such as party telephones, washboards, and wringer washing machines) were in vogue. Now the more sophisticated high-speed Internet and websites assist us on our way—weather permitting as well as Comcast. In the ever-ascending and -descending spiritual Journey, individually and together, this community has been uniquely gifted and established.<br />
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The early Church believers were called followers of “the Way.” They followed Jesus, Who was first clothed in primitive diapers called “swaddling clothes”, then dawned sandals, sometimes walking alone, sometimes with His friends, sometimes nearly being chased off a cliff, found healing in one crowd, feeding 5,000, then disappearing to a mountain to pray. His family? Some eventually follow; some scoff in disbelief.<br />
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His community? Fishermen, tax collectors, ladies of the night, a woman at the well. Sometimes we find them asleep, puzzled, confused, dejected, in shock. One day they’re preaching, another day healing, another day not able to heal, complaining, praising, acting proud, then like cowards. Some are martyred, beheaded, betrayers. Not an impressive clan or resumé…just folks like you and me, seeking God’s Way. Going where? Don’t know. For how long? Can’t tell.<br />
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So why would anyone want to follow this strange Jesus…this odd Way? Why not just take the normal path (a house, 2 kids, and a dog)? Why sell all--the monastic Christian Way? Each Sister would give you a different answer, and it would be good to hear each one tell. Here’s what Thomas Keating says (quoted in <i>A Monk in the World</i>, by Wayne Teasdale, pg. xxvii),<br />
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<blockquote>The essence of monastic life<br />
is not its structures<br />
but its interior practice,<br />
and the heart of interior practice<br />
is contemplative prayer.</blockquote><br />
In the Gospel passage, Matthew says the “kingdom of heaven is like a treasure in the field” and like “fine pearls” at the depths of the water. Unless one is willing to assent (to say Yes)--to stoop down and mess up an otherwise neatly-ordered life, to venture into the Unknown--these priceless kingdom treasures cannot be found. The Way takes action and faith: and lots of prayer!<br />
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Since 1945, the Sisters of the Order of St. Helena have passed us a legacy. Theirs cannot be rewritten. Does this legacy inspire us spiritually? Why or why not? Is OSH currently investing in quality values and spiritual treasure? Is our legacy one that adds to the kingdom or does it leave a liability to the next generation?<br />
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What I wish to call the “NOW generation”--the base of our current 20 Sisters—are about the business of shaping the future of OSH, one decision at a time—personally and corporately.<br />
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Let me draw your attention to this window, which has been a point of focus for me in chapel. From my seat, which was once Sister Elsie’s and perhaps other Sisters, I can see this tree—with a medium-sized trunk and two branches going off in a V-pattern. To me, it represents the fact that there are two ways to go at every crossroad we face. With every step, every conversation, appointment, action or inaction, there’s a way that leads toward a better life and a way that does not. By conscious intention, most often I am able to make a free choice. The choices I make have either a positive or a negative effect, personally and as a community. The choices others make also have their effect. And God works with whatever “quality” of choices we make: as individuals and as a community.<br />
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In Colossians, Paul speaks of some quality choices. Wouldn’t you like to live with Sr. Compassion, Sr. Kindness, Sr. Humility, Sr. Meekness, Sr. Patience, Sr. Charity, Sr. Forgiveness, Sr. Peace, Sr. Grateful, Sr. Teacher, Sr. Admonisher, Sr. Singer, Sr. who does all in the name of the Lord Jesus, or Sr. who give thanks to God. With this quality of Sisterhood, we would be well adorned.<br />
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In Deuteronomy, the Israelites receive simple instructions on how to live and die well. They are also summarized, to me, in the vows monastic’s take:<br />
<b>Obedience</b>: “Obey my commandments, and it will be well with you.”<br />
<b>Chastity</b>: “Love the Lord your God with ALL your heart, soul, mind, and strength.”<br />
<b>Poverty</b>: Be poor in spirit, not proud…humbly pass the teachings of God along to the next generation. (Please do not leave your stories untold.). Do not live for yourself alone. Humbly give your life to the service of God and others, as a lasting treasure and legacy.<br />
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Summary Action Points<br />
--Talk to the NOW generation about God: the Way, the Truth, and the Life.<br />
--Make prayerful, intentional, free choices at every turn.<br />
--Remember that what you do (or don’t do) is passed on as a legacy to others.<br />
--Make your life in God a legacy others wish to repeat and remember.<br />
--Take risks.<br />
--Sit for four days and pray.<br />
--Be still, and know God.<br />
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Conclusion<br />
As a one-year, one-day member of OSH, I would like to conclude with a small portion of a poem from Hafiz (portion taken from “Tired of Speaking Sweetly” in <i>The Gift – Poems of Hafiz</i>):<br />
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“…The Beloved sometimes wants to do us a favor.<br />
Hold us upside down<br />
and shake all the nonsense out….”<br />
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That is what the monastic life can do for a person. (hold up saltshaker) Let us be like the saltshaker, tipped upside down and shaken. And as we come to the Table, may what comes out be of such a quality that others will want to “Taste and See” what Grace (Good News) we have found.<br />
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Sr. Grace, n/OSHUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0